The Power of Love Languages
Love is a natural force that governs the universe according to quantum physics theories. It is the energy field surrounding all objects, humans included. Love encompasses a wide range of both positive and negative emotional and physical states, from the deepest intimate union, the strongest communal bond, to the most mundane joy. It is a powerful force that can manifest itself in our lives in all of its various manifestations.
When two people come together in romantic love they are literally putting their love into every aspect of their relationship. They are experiencing the feelings of love not only for the other person but also for their own radiant, unlimited, eternal love for each other. This is the essence of romantic intimacy. The ability to create such intimacy often stems from early childhood experiences. Yet even if we do not have an experience of childhood love, we can still practice putting our feelings into our relationships.
Romantic love means more than just physical attraction. To experience it a person must also be open to expressing their other feelings, and doing so in a healthy relationship. It is important for one partner to express the feelings of love while they are still unmet. A lack of expression of such feelings can be detrimental to a relationship because it keeps the other person feeling alone and rejected.
Just as our physical attraction might fade over time, so might our shared affection and connection. People in a relationship will naturally gravitate towards one another more and become drawn into being around each other. However, love include more than just physical attraction. Our love is a deep emotional connection that is expressed through all of our interactions with each other.
It is important to remember that love languages are universal. There is one for each person. This is why it is so important to talk with your partner if you feel that something is not right. It is equally important to listen to one another when we are speaking. When we are listening we are expressing our feelings and communicating to one another what we need and what we expect out of our relationships.
If we are able to communicate with each other in positive emotions we will be able to create healthy relationships. As well-being goes, these relationships will have more depth and will last much longer. One of the best things that we can do for ourselves is to practice being present with one another. We must learn to be present for our partners’ well-being as well. Love languages are powerful tools to use in creating healthy relationships and strong, enduring ones.